Couples Coaching
Relationship & Couples Coaching
Has your sex life gone stale? Does sex feel like just another duty? Has your capacity for pleasure taken a dive?
Do you or your partner feel an aversion to intimacy? Have you stopped making love? Is one of you making excuses to avoid being intimate?
Do you feel like you or your partner are becoming disconnected from the intimate aspects of your relationship?
Is there a discrepancy between how much sex and intimacy you and your partner desire?
Are changing hormones, age, illness, surgery or other physical circumstances throwing a curve ball at your attempts for intimacy?
Or- are you simply looking to spice things up, experience magnificent sex, and bond on a deeper level than ever before?
These are all common concerns I see people for with my relationship and couple’s coaching services. I help you strengthen your connection, heighten your mutual pleasure and explore different ways to grow in your union. I have a process for my couple's coaching that, step by step, helps you move towards your mutual goals. Get started on your journey with a free couple’s consultation!
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Free 30-Minute Zoom Discovery Call
Online & In-Person Couple’s Coaching
At True Intimacy, I offer both online and in-person couples coaching in Greater Melbourne. Whether you’re in Perth or Brisbane, New York or the United Kingdom, or right here in Victoria, I can help you rekindle your long-term or special relationship.
I like to suggest a free 30-minute online discovery call for all couples’ coaching, which gives us a chance to meet, see if we connect and start to explore what it is you want to achieve.
Then, we can tailor a coaching package specifically for your needs and get started on your mutual journey to ultimate pleasure, both in and out of the bedroom.
Fill in my intake form, then book in your consult to start your journey to living your most fulfilled life.
Benefits of Couple’s Coaching
Better Sex
Better Connection
Communication
Deepen Intimacy
COUPLES COACHING
'Transform Your Intimacy' Couples Package
$2750 for 6 month package
What you receive:
TEN x 75-90 min, tailored sessions together as a couple (including several 1:1 sessions each, to work on your individual needs and development)
Bespoke “home-play” practices designed for your unique dynamic — gentle yet powerful explorations to awaken intimacy, nurture connection, and guide you both deeper into your shared growth.
Resources to refine your intimacy skills (including sexy homework to be done!)
Accountability check-ins and email support.
My process is designed, step by gentle step, to open you up into a deeper intimate connection, to share beautiful pleasure together.
I help you to turn towards each other for connection, affection and mutual pleasure even when you’re no longer in the habit of being intimate.
We start with a diagnostic session to see what is going on in your relationship, what's going well and what needs work in terms of intimacy, sex, stress levels, time alone together, bids for connection etc.
From there we dive into your unique situation, looking at the core concepts of desire discrepancy, understanding arousal patterns, plus the effects of stress and the nervous system on your libido and desire, and your own individual histories and how this plays out in your system- all aspects that affect your sex life.
My trusted process provides you with the knowledge, understanding and specific practices to bring you into a deeper understanding of yourself and each other, for better sex, more intimacy and deeper connection.
The coaching journey will help you establish an intimate ‘couple bubble’ from the ground up, through a safe container based on both of your foundational needs within an intimate connection.
FAQs
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An intimacy coach helps unravel what is holding you back from reaching your full potential in yourself, your body, your relationships and in the bedroom. Practice-based techniques, such as connection and pleasure based activities, breath work, gentle trauma release and physical practices are paired with inner ‘somatic’ work to connect your mind, body and innate sexual nature.
In both my online and Greater Melbourne based in person intimacy coaching sessions, I ensure you feel comfortable and safe to allow for the radical honesty needed to truly understand yourself, to make a positive change in your life. My work is non-touch and trauma informed.
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People see a sex coach for a number of reasons, including for:
No or low libido.
Erectile dysfunction.
Not achieving orgasm.
Difficulties in arousal.
Inability to receive (or give) intimately
Aversion to physical or sexual touch
Feeling sexually disconnected in your relationship.
Pain with penetration.
Intimacy issues.
Mismatched desire in relationship
Numbness or dulled experience of pleasure.
and more... Many people aren’t sure what is the exact cause of their dissatisfaction, but they know they want more from intimacy.
A free consultation is a great place to start your journey and ensure we are a great fit in exploring this next exciting (and, yes, much more satisfying) phase of your life.
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The signs of issues in intimacy will present differently in everyone. but may include:
Avoiding physical contact or intimate situations. Making excuses not to have sexual intimacy.
Experiencing difficulty sharing feelings or desires.
Having trouble feeling sexually satisfied.
Demonstrating trust issues.
Finding it hard to connect with your partner
Having a history of bad relationships, or a pattern has developed.
Feeling dissatisfied with the amount of sex you are having and feeling unable to do anything about it
As an intimacy coach, it is my job to uncover these behaviours and see the ways these responses are arising. I help you understand your triggers and give you the power to move into new ways of being, for deep and gratifying relationships.
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2020 Certified Somatic Intimacy Coach through VITA COACHING program, with Layla Martin
2021 Majors- Relationship Transformation, Life Transitions
2024 Cam Fraser’s Men’s Sacred Sexuality Coaching certification
2024 The 3 Keys, Tantric Genital De-armouring with Rahi Chun.
2025 Somatic Experiencing (Peter Levine’s certification training) Module 1/11
2026- in progress, Modules 2 and 3 Somatic Experiencing with Restoring Resilience
The VITA™ Methodology combines the modern science of human biology with holistic ways shaped by the spiritual studies of Asian culture. Through this training, I have learned how to reach into potent ancient wisdom and combine it with neurobiology (including our brain’s amazing capacity for neuroplasticity) and modern sexology, to help heal your blocks and help you thrive in sex and intimacy.
Vita™ Coaches believe sexuality is sacred, beautiful, powerful and completely natural. Humans are sensual beings, however we can have layers of conditioning and habits that overwhelm our natural, authentic sexual nature. As a certified sex coach in Australia, with clients all over the globe, it is my goal to help you release these blockages and contractions preventing you from knowing the full potential of your heart, your pleasure, your connections and your relationships. If you are feeling lost in your sexual or intimate self. let’s talk.